Let it roll off you
A story I wrote on Facebook, last year on this day, is worth preserving here on my blog.
by Dave Saturday, November 5, 2016

Facebook has an "on this day in" feature, similar to a feature with the same name I used to have on Scripting News until it became too much of a burden to review 10, then 15, then 20 years of archives every day. Sometimes Facebook uncovers something I wrote only on Facebook that really should be out on the open web. Here's such a piece written on this day last year, the full text of which appears below.

I was once at a workshop where we all hung out in a room together for 48 hours, mostly strangers, people who had never met before. About 20 people. All ages, male and female.

The format -- we all talk, supposedly just about ourselves, but since it was 48 hours long, it got personal, at times very personal.

At one point I was challenged by a young man, a frequent thing you hear from them, Why do you think you know so much more than me? I had never said that I know more than anyone, I wasn't talking about him, just about myself. I was more than twice his age, so I assumed he was referring to my age.

I asked how old he was. 22. I asked if he had learned anything since he was 12. Yes, of course. Do you think learning stops at 22. A long answer but basically yes. At this age, he believed, he fully understood how everything works.

Well, we have to tiptoe around this bug of youth. I'm 60, and a man in his thirties gave me a very long personal lecture via email about my character flaws. I said to him that I don't want to get embroiled with him, that took one sentence. In the second sentence, I indulged in a little advice since he gave advice so freely to me.

"Try to let it roll off you, that's what I do."

That's all I said. I thought it was good advice. And yes at 60 I do think I know more than you about life.

I'm really tired of tip-toeing around the weak egos of the young folk. I'm going to try to not do it so much.

Thanks for listening.

PS: One of the best comments on the Facebook post came from Liz Terry. "You seem to be a wanker-magnet." She's obviously British. I said in response that I was going to put that on my business card. I don't actually have a business card.

PPS: That same day I linked to an image of unknown origin that made me LOL again.