The best thing about blogsMonday, July 30, 2007 by Dave Winer. Jim Forbes, a guy I used to hang out with in the 80s, illustrates how, in a moment of vulnerability, we sometimes reveal a truth about ourselves to the rest of the world. I have so much to say about this. We're taught, or at least I was, from an early age, to not show weakness. By that, the teachers meant, don't show anything real. Just be like a TV actor, pretending life is uniform and pleasing, satisfactory, not too joyous or despair-filled. None of those ups and downs please. Maybe we're evolving beyond that (bullshit). And maybe blogs are part of that. Anyway, I had an event in my life something like Jim's, five years ago. I kept a fairly open diary of my recovery, and looking back on it I see that even as I was recovering from hugely invasive surgery, I was stronger in some ways then than I am now. I find that more than a little disturbing. But like Jim, I can give myself a pretty good peptalk, and when that fails, a friend sometimes steps in and takes charge. Sylvia, this Sunday, took a group of us on a hike to the top of a mountain. When we started I didn't know that's where we were going! I sure complained a lot, but in the end I made it. What a sense of accomplishment! |