I posted this in a comment in a Facebook thread. I wanted to make it a bit more visible.

Dale, when I see people on the net being gentle and kind and loving in supporting women's rights, I push it with every ounce of flow I have. People don't get inflamed with gentleness, but that's how minds get changed. No one is inspired to creativity by intimidation. I'd like to see the guy express himself, and be happy on such a great day, and have him feel all our support, than see shame. That is such a bug. Men have lots of love to give. Yet that is so unaccepted.